“ You will never be happy if you constantly worry what others think about you.”
In our society the top most thing that haunts about marriages are Gold ,perhaps that’s the true concern . Even if you are rich or poor financially ,the girl must be buried with gold and heavy outfit ,that’s a must. Suppose if its your marriage then the only person who doesn’t have an opinion is you. Well not in every case but yes , majority of the case that’s the situation. Society always has an impact on everyone’s personal decisions . But have we ever thought that it’s time to change such a mind set ,definitely it is not possible to change the old mindset but sure the growing mindset that’s us can surely bring a huge change to this system that’s being taking place in our society.
Recently there were these sisters named Nuziha who is known as Vloger’s and social media influencer, both her and her sister Nusra made a variety concept which really influenced a huge crowd of young girls. They only did one thing, they made sure that they don’t regret latter in their life for not making their wedding day special as they want them to be. Both sister’s never used ornaments in their life . And so they decided to avoid ornaments for their wedding too. Both of them had their marriage with no gold. Their outfit too was simple and that’s what really made them happy. That literally was an eye opening act. Even when there were huge pressure from their family about the talk what will people say ,’ they would literally insult your parents for not giving your child anything. They would say we dint have anything to give to our child and that’s the reason she is not wearing any gold.’ But these girls really stood strongly against that thought.’ In the end these people who comes to eat and leave perhaps doesn’t even bother to remember that day , but we will remember our whole life about it as its our own special day’.
You don’t have to sacrifice your personal happiness to anything . What will other’s say doesn’t have to really matter to you at all. If you want to wear gold for your wedding then wear them. But if you doesn’t want them, then avoid it. Our society should have the concept that ,Yes Girls can be married too even if you don’t have a heavy outfit or buried in gold to impress others. Even if you sent your girl child only with education ,she still can be lived happily. And even if she wear them or not it is not at all the in laws concern . You don’t have to make your son get married so that you and your family can eat with the girl child’s parents wealth. Educate your son , educate your daughter and that will help them live by not starving . Wealth will come and go, but if education is given then no one can take away that from you.
Remember , every decision or choice you make for yourself has an impact on the others. So make sure that it inspires the one who sees it, which gives them hope that , Yes even things are possible this way too.
I have always been against Glorifying Over Work and therefore, in the year 2021, I have decided to launch this campaign “Balancing Life”and talk about this wrong practice, that we have been following since last few years. I will be talking to and interviewing around 1 lakh people in the coming 2021 and publish their interview regarding their opinion on glamourising Over Work.
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