Dear little shreya
By passing of time u r turning to be 18th this year, a message i m giving to little shreya is 🙂
I am writing this today to let you know that you are a strong girl and no problems and challenges are bigger than you .
You must be thinking that you are missing out most of the things in your life which children of your age do most of the time ,no worry only enjoying every moment and you are here on the other hand full of responsibility and worries.
I would like to say only one thing that life gives you exactly the same amount of struggles which you capacity to overcome . Don’t compare your situation or problems with others . You are doing great till now . I am glad to say this that you kept patience and understand every situation in very young age .
I know the struggle and sacrifice part came very early in your life but it’s good as you would learn the art of living your life very early . You would be able to know the cost of everything which will help you in making a better decision for yourself .
Also you should be proud of your parents who love you and support you in every thing you want . Just keep doing your things . Make them proud don’t overthink and take stress . You would become way more mature very early but that is only going to help you .
At last I would just like to say that don’t compare anyone with yourself . Everybody has their own battles in their life . Your competition and happiness should be yours , they should not be because of influence of others .
And yes always welcome every situation no matter it is good or bad with your smile 😉
No matter what happens always remember that your family loves you and you don’t have to feel guilty for things that aren’t under your control . And I know that it may seem right now that your life keeps on getting worse but things are eventually going to get better before they get worse again and then get better again. This cycle will continue no matter how hard you try to break through .
But slowly with time , you are going to learn how to face the ups and downs of life and embrace the uncertainty of it. You are going to forget all about those who hurt you and you’ll forgive them too. The people who made fun of you will be afraid of you one day. The best friend who left you will be left by others. who hurt you will fade away People will often mistake your boldness but don’t let this be the part of the life . You want to build for yourself . You are going to encounter several fucktards who will help you see how much better you are than them and I know it is hard for you to believe that because of the of self esteem issues you suffer from but trust me when I say this you are worth it. So stop being so hard on yourself all the time. Stop complaining all the time what could have been if you had done things differently because all those bad choices watch the series which trigger you for better sucess and choose yourself inspite of anyone no matter who are there for you make sure you are always for you with you and by you the course of your life and lead you to the path of self discovery.
I have always been against Glorifying Over Work and therefore, in the year 2021, I have decided to launch this campaign “Balancing Life”and talk about this wrong practice, that we have been following since last few years. I will be talking to and interviewing around 1 lakh people in the coming 2021 and publish their interview regarding their opinion on glamourising Over Work.
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