Accepting things is so important for oneself. Accepting people the way they are without being judgemental about others. This not only leads to self-prace but also it makes the other person feel good. Only by this way others will be able to be confident in what they are. Let others feel the way they are, let them think the way it is and let them be different from you. Everyone is different from one another. Accepting others doesn’t mean that you agree to all that they say and not keeping your points but it means that not stopping others from putting their point of vision. It simply means to accept other people the way they are without judging them. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. God has made everyone different.
When you start accepting others you even start respecting their thoughts and grasp or inculcate certain good qualities from them which is beneficial to you. You learn a lot when you start to accept. It will let the control go away which you would try to hold over yourself. Everyone and everything is meant to be different. Not everything can be our way. You will also experience a greater personality growth. Always respect and acknowledge others beliefs. Don’t force others to change but instead guide them to be better. Always know others story it will help them know better. Many a times we keep on judging others which is easier but to point out the good in others would really always be challenging and empathetic.
It makes us realise that they are doing the best they could do in their life. Not only we should be welcoming towards others but also to our own selves. Always be real don’t mask-up yourself admit your mistakes too and practice radical honesty. Accepting others is not easy at times when people act differently we all will have a trouble in accepting. We need to be skillful enough in order to understand others. Let’s allow them. Many a times people do understand each other but their approach is in the wrong way. But once you let them be them selves then you will be easily approachable which is too essential.
To be in a healthy and successful relationship accepting your partner the way they are works like wonders. Both should accept the imperfections and embrace the flaws in each other. When it comes to accepting it also means accepting the critics in ourself. Pause for a moment, seize the opportunity, ask questions, don’t take it personally and grow through it. This is called as flexibility in making choices. Moreover the fear of being accepted by others should not threaten you or make you under confident. One needs to balance between self improvement and self acceptance. Just release the need to be perfect all the time. A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is, instead of what you think it is. Happiness exists in acceptance and to be authentic is to be with peace at your imperfections.
I have always been against Glorifying Over Work and therefore, in the year 2021, I have decided to launch this campaign “Balancing Life”and talk about this wrong practice, that we have been following since last few years. I will be talking to and interviewing around 1 lakh people in the coming 2021 and publish their interview regarding their opinion on glamourising Over Work.
If you are interested in participating in the same, do let me know.
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