Children facing a meltdown is not something unusual. Infact, every parent faces the same atleast once in a week. A lot of times, children do not understand, they want exactly and the result is a trantrum or a meltdown. Just the way we have impulse buying, children also have impulsive demands, which if not fulfilled always result into meltdown.
Whenever my children throw a tantrum all I do is hug them closely. For me a tight hug can solve or atleast make things easier to face.
Sometimes, children are overwhelmed with emotions and do not know, how to express themselves. They get scared by the sudden changes, they have fear in their minds and that is why sometimes, they do behave in the exact opposite way than what we expect them to behave.
There are times, when I am not in control of how I feel. There are times, when I cannot control my thought process. I also do feel lonely and miserable. I do understand the circumstances around me and yet, I do not want to accept my shortcomings and that is the time, I feel miserable and breakdown mentally and emotionally.
That is the time, when I want someone to hug me tightly and say that everything will be all right. Nothing can bother me or touch me, till the time the hug is with me. That is the power of Hug for me. I am sure, that is the same thought the children have when you hug them. Whenever my children throw a bad fit of rage, or they are having a meltdown, I just closed the room and hug them tightly. I do not know whether it works or not, but yes, they do calm down in sometime.
There are times, when a simple hug can solve the biggest relationship crisis such as a small anger or misunderstanding. That is the power of hug.
A hug somehow always works for me and somehow even my children seem to understand the same. When ever I am feeling low in my life, my kids somehow realise the same and hug me tightly and tell me that its ok, it happens. That is something that actually their teacher tells them, when they make small errors. I guess children do immitate us elders in all the situations.
I have always been against Glorifying Over Work and therefore, in the year 2021, I have decided to launch this campaign “Balancing Life”and talk about this wrong practice, that we have been following since last few years. I will be talking to and interviewing around 1 lakh people in the coming 2021 and publish their interview regarding their opinion on glamourising Over Work.
If you are interested in participating in the same, do let me know.
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