Change is the only thing that is constant.
Change is the only thing that constantly happens in our life. Rest everything changes. The circumstances today will change tomorrow. You just need to be patient about the same. If your children are small and their naughtiness is overwhelming you. Remember it will only be for today.
To be frank, when my son was young say around 2- 3 years. I was very frustrated because my son would fall sick often and I had to miss meetings and give up work because of his sleep schedules. At times, I felt, why did I get married and have a baby. I started blaming my kid, for a lot of things that went wrong in my life. To be frank, I lost Patience and nothing around me seemed to be working. A friend of mine had started learning Astrology as a Hobby and had asked me for my Birth Details. I had provided him with the same. He asked me to recite Hanuman Chalisa everyday atleast 2 times a day. That made me mentally strong and accept the fact, that there will be certain things that will always be out of my control.
Accepting the present situation, will help you deal with a lot of your anxiety. Most of the times, when we are returning back to our careers, the first thing that we often forget is that, it is not only a big change for us, but it is also a change for those around us. It will take sometime for them also to adjust to this new change. So give them also sometime, to adjust to their new routine.
Today, your children are small and require your help, but tomorrow they will grow up. Trust me, kids grow up and mature a lot faster than how we grew up. They understand things, only if we make an attempt to converse with them, empathise with them and make them understand our circumstances. So try and make your children understand that there will be a change in their lives also soon and therefore, Mumma also needs to make some new changes in her life by getting back to work. Trust me a lot of times our children are our biggest support system.
Every stress, every feeling of being overwhelemed is just temporary. Everything is a phase and will soon be over before you know the same.
This post is part of BlogChatter’s A2Z Blogging festival .https://www.theblogchatter.com/all of April where I’m writing about how I have restarted my career Unapologetically.
I have always been against Glorifying Over Work and therefore, in the year 2021, I have decided to launch this campaign “Balancing Life”and talk about this wrong practice, that we have been following since last few years. I will be talking to and interviewing around 1 lakh people in the coming 2021 and publish their interview regarding their opinion on glamourising Over Work.
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