An Inspiration who helped me grow

When we talk about inspiration, we often look at people who are achievers or bigger and more successful than us in stature. But since last few months, the person who has been constantly inspiring me is someone tiny.

Yes, my inspiration is my daughter who at present is about 10 months young but has been my inspiration from the time she was a part of me physically. In my paternal family, my daughter is the 2nd girl child after 9 brothers, so you can only imagine the excitement and curiosity to have a girl child.

Workwise, I have never been so happy and content since last one year. I was in two minds, when I had to work during my pregnancy because my health was not that great and my elder son was being more clingy than ever. Somehow, silently, there was a voice from inside my soul that told me that I could do it.

I participated in more blogging challeges, went to more bloggers meet and I literally worked on the day I delivered via C-section.

Throughout my pregnancy, I had one thought in my mind, which kept me motivated. I need to teach importance of education and independence to my children by standing on my own feet first. I had to show them practically that, marriage, family, pregnancy are things that are meant to be balanced along with your career and not something that needs to be blamed.

It was during my second pregnancy that I was most active. We are often inspired by women who have achieved a lot in their lives or have helped us. But I am inspired by this tiny woman, who gave birth to the mother in me for the second time. Being mother to my daughter, has made me only more stronger in the last few months. The desire to create a better world and to teach her to face challenges has only increased.

Yes. She is just a few months old, still people do not refrain themselves, from judging her for her smile, or skin colour or body, or the most common question Who does she resemble ? Trust me as a mother, everytime a person says this, I feel like punching that person’s face literally. We as a society do not fail to judge even a tiny infant, but yet my little darling just ignores them as if their comments barely exist for her.

Earlier, I was and I am still a person, who gets the most effected by “Char log kya kahenge?” but today, after learning from my baby, I don’t give two hoots to what people say.

She may be too tiny to understand, what Women’s Day means, but for me, she has already inspired my entire life.

Hereunder are a few glimpses of our lives.

P.S. It does not mean I do not love my son. I love both my children equally.

“This post is a part of ‘The Woman That I Am’ Blog Hop #TheWomanThatIAm organized by Rashi Roy and Manas Mukul #RRxMM. The Event is sponsored by Kraffitti.”

The copyright of this article belongs exclusively to Ms.Aishwarya Sandeep. Any reproduction of the same would amount to copyright infringement as per the Indian Laws. Appropriate actions would be initiated as the Indian Laws subject to Mumbai Jurisdiction.

70 comments

  1. We are so busy teaching our children all the time that we forget to realize that we can also learn from them. They could be our inspiration. your story is very motivating. Loved your positive outlook and cool compose. Lovely family. God bless!

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  2. I love the way you write straight from your heart. It was really sweet of you to dedicate this post to the tiny one. Indeed, they are too young to know what they do but they sometimes insipre us in the most unusual ways. Glad you are a part of this blog hop and loved reading your post.

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  3. such people are pathetic , just say tum pe to gai nahi hai aur jane bhi nahi dungi. why people need to judge ?
    you are doing great job mommy, keep it up. I love your daughter innocent face.

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  4. Very heart touching post. Being a mother of two daughters I can relate to this. I specially liked the lines ‘marriage, family, pregnancy are things that are meant to be balanced along with your career and not something that needs to be blamed.’ Very nicely written.

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  5. Yes you are right… letting them know the power of education and being independent in every sense of the word is most important…many blessings to your little one… What a love letter to your daughter ))

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  6. What an amazing and a cute inspiration Aishwarya ji. Who would have thought that these tiny hands would show you the path and guide you. Glad you gave us a chance and this wonderful cutie as an inspiration
    #RRxMM #TheWomanThatIAm

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